Never take a chance to talk about her daugher/son in front of her. Give her the assurance that the utmost importance is given to her.
Never discuss about religion or politics at the dinner time. It worsens the situation. As the saying goes, “If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other”.
Make sure that you help her in the kitchen work. If she stays away from you, call her weekly once and find about her health conditions and have a chit chat for some period of time to maintain a good rapport.
Compliment her frequently about her personality or the costumes she wears. Make sure that you wish her on her birthday, anniversary day and Mother's day. Surprise her with a gift and flowers. She will be the happiest person in the world!
Whenever you feel that there is a serious problem with your mother in law, talk to her openly and discuss about it. Understand each other’s feelings and come to a conclusion.
Always be polite and respectful towards the mother in laws as they are elder to us. Make sure that the grand kids spend time with their grandparents. As the saying goes “The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend”.
Whenever she tells you something, give to their words and make sure it is done. At the end of the day, they tell it for our goodness.
Try taking advices from her in any difficult situation as she is experienced in all the factors. Of course, they are few mother in laws who shows their superiority and it hurts the daughter in laws.
Mother-in-law’s should not forget that their daughter is also a daughter in law for some other house.
Always try to forgive their mistakes and forget them as soon as possible. It is good for the entire family to lead a peaceful life.
Whenever you face any problem, talk to the entire family and discuss about the problem together and search for a solution.
Maintain peace with your mother in law to make things go in a lively manner. If there is a argument between mother in law and his son, never go in between them. The problem would lead to a bigger one due to ego problems.
Always thank her for whatever she does, because behind every successful man stands a surprised mother-in-law. - Voltaire